I know that this is not what you are used to me saying. I know I am usually the one pushing you forward and encouraging you to keep going.
Today, I’m changing my tune a bit to both keep you on your toes and to lighten your load.
Sometimes to keep moving forward you need to look over what is going on in your world. So let’s examine a few things that might be worth giving up.
I hear all the time that in order to be successful it is a hard road that requires sacrifice and pain. This thought is the basis of the statement that “if it were easy it wouldn’t be worth it.”
I’m here to challenge all this.
First off – if we buy into the notion that whatever we’re working on is hard, we look for ways to prove this. If you are trying to lose weight and you tell yourself how much stuff you can’t have and how hard it is to stay on track – how do you think you feel about your eating plan? Then, top it off with what everyone refers to as a “cheat meal” and then feel wonderful about that!
If you’ve been reading my work for any amount of time you know how powerful I feel language is. I believe this is where many people can benefit from a change of mindset and it will make a huge difference in how it goes for them.
If you work on creating a positive atmosphere around what you are doing I guarantee you that it will make even the hardest tasks more pleasant and easier.
For example – when setting out for a long run, I can choose to think about the miles, the heat and the effort the whole thing is going to take me. Instead in order to get a good run in, I think of the fact I’m doing meditation at the same time, how good I will feel when I’m done, how accomplished I will feel and how strong I am becoming. I’m not telling myself anything that is not true however I’m just focusing on all the benefits of my run instead of all the challenges.
The other thing that deserves review is this idea of change. This is a natural progression in life. Why are we so against change?
I encourage you to give up on the notion that life should be the same all the time. If we didn’t have ups and downs how boring would life be? [Raise Your Hands And Scream-Aug 2012] Think of the blooms we would not see if seeds never broke their shells and sprouted their first leaves! Think of the life you would live if you never grew up and never changed.
Give Up The Story
Finally, the last thing I want you to give up today is the notion that your dream life can’t come true. Please give up the thought that your dreams are too big, you’re too old or that your time is past or whatever is holding you back from chasing that spark that lights you up.
Look, if you are still breathing – even if you’re on life support – it ain’t over til it’s over!
When you give up all the stuff above, you make space for all the greatness that you can possibly hold, and if your arms get full, think about what else you can give up that is not allowing for great stuff to come into your life.
Focus on the benefits you reap from chasing what you truly desire. Focus on the life that you wish to live and what you look, feel and act like when you are living that life.
Remember that change happens, it is not something to be feared or forced it is natural, doesn’t have to be scary and brings beautiful things like butterflies and blooms. Sometimes there is a spot during this that it feels like life is in chaos however it will pass and just understand it is a temporary part of change. If you fight it less it will carry you along.
And last but not least, step into your dreams bit by bit. Nothing is too big or crazy – look, we’ve got people sending cars to the moon and a guy who created the pool noodle. So get crazy, creative and dream anything you want then take a small step towards it.
Look, you’re going to give up things along the road of life, let’s make them things that have been weighing you down or holding you back from living your dreams, not the dream itself.